Tania (16) is the youngest of three siblings, Marina (27) and Claudio (20).
Tania is close to his father; with his mother, he is not as close because she is very demanding and strict.
A year ago, at 15, when his sister was married, Tania fell into depression. With her, he had always been very close, unlike the bad relationship he has with his brother.
He began to get treated by a psychiatrist, psychologist and with Fluoxetine, achieving only partial improvement. It felt unable to finish the school year.
When he arrived at PLT, he expressed great sadness, longing for his sister, and loneliness. He has not been back to school.
His first experience is the intrauterine period, when he feels that he «should not be here» because «I’m a problem for my mom.» He was not planned.
In fact, he did not want be born, which coincides with the symptoms of abortion that forced his mother to rest absolutely for 2 months.
As the pregnancy progressed,he perceived that his father «does want me,» and he slowly began accepting birth.
In fact, during labor, there was a strong presence of his father, and soon he could also sense his siblings.
When he got home, he was in his cradle and was observed by his four-year-old brother. He felt that his brother did not want him. He looked with fear. He think that now, they will not accept him.
Tania wants his brother to take him and to accept him. He insists to talk to him: He say that he loves him. That she is not bad, he will not compete for affection. That she has to love…
But the child does not understand, because even though the baby is evident, the father did not look at him … only his little brother … alone … he thinks they abandoned him.
(Notice how commonly this occurs, without any misconduct we are neglectedas big brothers when a baby is born).
The sister, is already 11-years-old, reacts differently, she is very loving, takes his hand, speakssweetly.
But Tania wants that from his brother as well (crying) «He is so tiny! And everyone cares only about me…»
He speaks from the soul saying that he loves him, understands him, but the child still angry and sad.
At that time I ask Tania to go back to the origin of the relationship with his brother.
He returns to a life in which he is a young girl who is going home with her mother,they are abandoning his dad, who is his current brother.
He asks in vain not to leave. But the motherinsists. It is the same mom as in this life. She leaves and takes Tania.
Sometime later, Tania marries and leaves, never to see his parents.
He learns to love her husband; He is good. They have 4 children, and he feels good with his family but he always carries guilt and shame for his father, and bitterness towardshis mother.
Fast-forward his last day; he is on his deathbed. His youngest daughter is by his side.She is Marina, his sister in this life. They both goodbye «We will always be in our hearts.» And it istrue now. «I’m very sorry, but I have to go.»
I ask: What did you have to learn in this life?
«The love of family. And in this lifetime I have to prove what I learned, to change things. To show them that it is better to be united. We suffered enough from separation».
I return to dialogue from soul to soul with his brother.
«Yes. Brother, I love you and I’m sorry I abandoned you in that life. I also feel that at my birth, they took attention from you and gave it to me but that was not my fault. I propose to make up for lost time.
He says “Yes. I feel good. Now I have to go to teach what I learned.”
After regression, Tania is fully recovered and successfully reintegrated into school. His relationship with his family have also improved markedly.